Speaking Remorse

For speakers, content creators, coaches, professionals & business owners who want to look and feel good on camera– but get hung up on how they look and sound.

Have you felt victimized by the lens?

Yeah, me too!

You want to make videos to share your message…

But the moment you hit record, the self-criticism kicks in.

 

Your voice sounds weird.

Your smile feels fake.

You hate how your neck looks.

And that thing you do with your eyebrows– yikes!

You make 25 takes.

And delete them all!

Or, you block off time on your calendar each week to make videos.

But somehow it never happens.

(which means the people who could really benefit from your work, won’t.)

You’re not being vain.

You’re not overreacting.

 

You’re just caught in the grip of the inner critic.

I pretty much detested seeing myself on camera. Now I am exploring ways to spread my message with video as well as speaking that I would not even have considered that before.”
Janet Powers

Activist, Speaker, Designer

That’s why I created Watch Yourself on Video Without Cringing

A guided experience to help you:

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Let go of harsh self-judgment
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Learn to evaluate yourself with curiosity and warm intelligence instead of critique

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Transform your inner critic into a creative ally that offers helpful suggestions instead of attacks

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Enjoy your on-camera presence – really!
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Actually enjoy the process of making videos – and finally hit “share”

The Transformational Journey: A 3-Phase Process

Phase 1: Awareness

  • Make a CRINGEWORTHY Video / Listen to the Inner Critic
  • Acknoledge the Inner Critic
  • Practicing Positive Self-Regard

Phase 2: Reframing

  • What You Can Change (and What You Can’t)
  • Making Peace with The Unchangeable
  • Recasting the Inner Critic
  • Take Two – With Kindness

Phase 3: Integration

  • See the You that Others See
  • Integrating Your Inner Critic
  • Reflecting on Your Hero’s Journey
This group has helped me to see my own beauty. I’m having fun doing videos now! I am much more natural, free and engaged. I’m much more ME.
Maria Aum

Transformational coach

Most coaches tell you to ignore the inner critic.

I Say: Let’s Heal It.

I’ve spent years studying what actually helps people feel different on camera.

Not just “fake it till you make it,” but real inner shifts.

It’s about meeting yourself with love, compassion, and creative curiosity.

You can’t silence the inner critic by ignoring it. You have to hear it to transform it.

I’m leaving here with an expanded sense of self acceptance. Instead of the critical inner voice that isn’t echoed anywhere else in my world, only within the space within my ears, I’m opening to see myself with the loving eyes that my friends would see me with.”
Terry Tomei

Founder, PozitivEnergy Solar Power

When you release your self-judgment, you:

    • Free up your energy for clarity, creativity, and connection

    • Show up more confidently in your business and brand

    • Achieve more of your goals.
    • Actually enjoy the process of making videos (no more dread!)

“This skill of transforming my inner critic has transferred to other areas of my life.”
Caitie Doidone

Fitness Coach

What’s included:

✨ Video lessons walking you through each phase of the transformation

✨ Guided audio exercises for self-compassion, healing your self-image, and forgiveness

✨ A beautifully designed journal with prompts, so you’re not just watching, you’re doing the inner work that creates real shifts

Linda’s training is absolutely amazing, practical, valuable and liberating! The transformation you’ll gain from this course is worth it.”
Louisa Wah

Eat Right Chef

💖 Watch Yourself On Video Without Cringing

$147!

Meet Your Guide

I’m Linda Ugelow – speaking confidence coach, author of Delight in the Limelight, host of two podcasts, and a former visibility-hater turned camera-loving keynote speaker.

I used to record 25 takes in one sitting – and still find a reason to scrap them all.

Now, I’ve posted over 1000+ videos, keynoted international conferences, and built a  TikTok following of 150K – and had fun doing it.

I combine my background in expressive arts therapy, voicework, movement, and decades of performance, and study in personal transformation to help you delight in all your limelight moments.

 

“A weight has been lifted. I’m not perfect—and I don’t need to be.
Katharina Kalamatianos

Interior Designer

You don’t have to cringe OR criticize.

You get to show up.

As you are.

And be enough.

Watch Yourself on Video Without Cringing

$127

© Linda Ugelow 2025